Diversity is part of what makes the world a vibrant and beautiful place. As children enter school, play sports, participate in activities and explore their community, they’ll get to know peers with a wide variety of abilities, cultures, languages and backgrounds.

It’s totally natural for children, particularly very young ones, to notice both similarities and differences and to express curiosity. Here are some simple ways to model acceptance of diversity and to frame it as a strength.

• Lead by Example. Remember that kids are always listening and watching. Show kindness in your own daily life and be aware of the way that you talk to others. Even though it may seem like harmless fun, making comments or jokes that encourage stereotypes can undo what children have been taught about respecting others.

• Have Open Conversations about Diversity. Comments such as “we don’t see color” or “we’re all the same on the inside” don’t acknowledge the reality that differences do exist. Part of what makes community fabric so rich is that individuals come from unique backgrounds, ethnicities and cultures. Have discussions about the importance of accepting people as they are and answer your child’s questions honestly.

• Correct Insensitive Comments. Sometimes children will not realize that what they’re saying is offensive. Turn it into a teaching moment. Gently correct them and explain that it’s hurtful to talk about someone because they are different. Remind the child to treat others the way that they want to be treated themselves.

• Provide Exposure to Different Racial and Cultural Backgrounds. Schedule activities or play dates with children from different backgrounds. You can also explore another culture’s food, read books together or watch diversity-themed movies. 

• Celebrate Your Own Heritage. Children can readily learn acceptance by embracing their own culture. Explore your family tree, participate in cultural or religious traditions and visit extended family to strengthen your child’s sense of identity. Increasing their self-esteem about what makes them unique means they will be more likely to appreciate and respect others.